Charles H Green in his article “Does Your Customer Trust You? The Acid Test of Selling” describes four components of trust as an equation of trustworthiness:
T = C + R + I where: S T = trustworthiness of the seller (as perceived by the buyer), C = credibility, R = reliability, I = intimacy, and S = self-orientation
This notion of trust, while it is useful, mixes different types of trust and does not tell us much about how to initiate trust, how to sustain it, and what destroys it. Fortunately, it can be readily extended by relating it to several well-developed conceptions of trust. The first step is to recognize that it is our behaviors, as observed by buyers, which matter. Our true motivations or inner-most thoughts cannot be ‘read’. What the buyer responds to is our actions.
Research into how trust develops¹ has identified two types of trust that are particularly relevant to buyer / seller relationships. : Knowledge-based trust (KBT) and Goodwill-based trust (GBT). Early in a relationship, Knowledge-based trust dominates. Over time and given a successful (and trusting) set of exchanges – Goodwill-based trust (GBT) starts to take over.
Taking Green’s equation we can think of : KBT = C/S and GBT = I /S. Of course these (and Green’s) aren’t real formula – they are simply a representation of the relationships between components of trustworthiness. Green uses reliability to remind us that we gain trust through repeated, positive interactions but reliability is not in itself a behavior. A person can be reliably untrustworthy, reliably inconsistent, or reliably trustworthy. Interpersonal trust (or distrust) results from the aggregate of experience between two people some of which will be positive and some negative.
At the very start of a relationship, you may inherit trust based on the reputation of your organization or your own reputation. However, very quickly, the buyer will begin to judge you mostly by your competence. If you demonstrate that you know your product, the buyers r industry or are able to bring in the right experts – you will be judged as competent and therefore credible (medium to large C). Over several interactions, the customer will trust you provided you are also seen to be acting in their interest (small to medium S).
There is a balance in KBT since the buyer expects that you have your job to do and they have theirs. So early on in a relationship, salespeople need to focus on demonstrating their competence and avoiding behaviors that could be interpreted as opportunistic. You do not have to go overboard in acting in the customer’s best interests – but you at least need to be fair. If you are opportunistic, you may get the sale but there will not be any repeat sales!
In many sales exchanges, particularly where price is critical and where there is little to differentiate between competing products (other than price), KBT is as far as trust gets - or needs to get. If you can weather the storm and are successful in making repeated sales, KBT may develop into GBT and a completely different set of dynamics come into effect.
With GBT, the buyer trusts you ‘just because’. There is a level of true friendship and affection – Green calls this ‘intimacy’. Intimacy isn’t really something you can work on, despite what your significant other may say (that’s romance and an entirely different thing). Intimacy just is. Not all buyer / seller relationships ever progress to a high level of intimacy but those that do need special care.
A relationship where GBT dominates it is pretty simple to maintain - just keep doing the things that got you there in the first place. Although your competence and credibility will more often be taken as given, you still need to keep abreast of new products and what’s happening in the customers industry. Don’t rest on your laurels.
Destroying GBT is also easy – all it takes is one opportunistic act. Unlike KBT where credibility and self-orientation can balance each other – in GBT there is no room for self-interest. It is a violation of the relationship at a deeply personal and emotional level. It’s cheating and the consequences are severe. If you are lucky, the relationship may slip back to KBT but often it will simply end the relationship.
Keeping these things in mind and recognizing the type of trust that exists between you and each of your buyers will help you navigate the sometimes stormy waters of interpersonal relationships.
¹McAllister, D. J., Lewicki, R., & Chaturvedi, S. 2006. Trust in Developing Relationships: From Theory to Measurement. Proceedings of the Academy of Management Meetings, Atlanta, GA.
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Stuart Strolin has lived on three continents, working in sales of complex software and business development for consulting services. He combines practical experience and observation with formal academic research in search of answers to one question “What makes a good salesman”. Read More >> |
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