Stop Selling And Start Serving

Written by C. J. Hayden

"I don't like to sell."

"Asking people for business makes me uncomfortable."

"Selling feels manipulative and sleazy."

"I'm good at what I do. Why don't clients just come to me?"

If any of these thoughts seem familiar, you may be stuck in an outdated perspective about selling that is holding back your success.

Traditional sales models invoked adversarial images, as if selling were a battle between you and your prospects: "hook the client," "convince prospects to buy," "overcome their objections," and "get past their resistance."

This variety of selling is rarely even taught any more, but the images persist, and unfortunately, so do some of the manipulative sales practices they represent. But just because you see them used doesn't mean they are effective. The reality is that being on the same side as your clients works much better than opposing them. And it's a lot more comfortable for you.

In fact, some of the most successful professionals in your field actually never "sell" at all. What they do instead is simply be of service.

A primary reason that people hire a professional services provider is to serve as an expert resource. Your clients count on you for guidance, advice, support, resources, contacts, expertise, specialized techniques, access to technology, and up-to-the minute information. Every one of these elements is something you can begin to provide your prospects before they ever become paying clients.

By freely offering information, advice and resources to people who have not yet decided to hire you, the need for any clash of wills between prospect and service provider disappears.
Instead of creating sales resistance, your generosity dissolves the barriers between you. Prospects begin to think of you as a trusted resource instead of a vendor who wants their business. You become the first person they think of in your field -- for their own needs and referrals as well.

Making the shift from selling to serving requires changes in more than just how you ask for the business to close the sale.

Your service attitude must begin with your first contact and pervade every aspect of your marketing. Here are some examples of the many ways you can substitute a service attitude for a sales approach in all of your interactions with prospective clients.

• In Your Brochure:

Selling Approach -- Five reasons to hire me as your accountant

Serving Approach -- Ten ways to save money on your taxes

• On Your Web Site:

Selling Approach -- Download our free survey on the benefits of executive coaching

Serving Approach -- Download our free survey on best practices in leadership development

• At Your Speaking Engagements:

Selling Approach -- Give me your card if you would like to find out more about chiropractic services

Serving Approach -- Give me your card and I will send you a free report on drug-free alternatives for back pain

• In Your Newsletter:

Selling Approach -- In my work with resolving workplace conflicts, I use a powerful model for diffusing messy situations

Serving Approach -- Here is a summary of the conflict resolution model I've developed and some tips for using it in your workplace

• As An Article Topic:

Selling Approach -- Why work with an interior designer?

Serving Approach -- Choosing a design theme for your living room

• On The Phone:

Selling Approach -- I'd like to introduce myself: I'm a change management consultant and I specialize in...

Serving Approach-- I understand your company is going through some changes and I'd like to see if I can provide any helpful insights

• In Your Ads:

Selling Approach -- Call for a 15% discount on your first appointment

Serving Approach -- Call for a free subscription to our weekly bulletin

• To A Networking Contact:

Selling Approach -- Here are the web design skills I can offer your clients

Serving Approach -- If any of your clients are having web design challenges, I'll be happy to provide some tips at no charge

What you'll notice about these examples is that they don't necessarily require you to do MORE about sales and marketing. If you have a good marketing plan in place, you can keep right on using it. The difference is that you begin to treat your prospects like clients from the first moment you contact them.

Instead of reserving your expertise for only those who have paid your fee, you share it with everyone you can.

Am I suggesting you give your professional services away for free? Absolutely not. Writing ten tips for saving taxes is not the same as preparing a tax return at no charge. Offering a few minutes of free advice on the phone is quite different from entering into a consulting engagement without being paid.

What I am suggesting is that your prospective clients deserve as much consideration as the close friends and family for whom you probably provide this type of quick, easy help routinely. After all, those people are unlikely to ever pay you for your time.

Prospective clients, on the other hand, will be eager to pay your fee once they get a taste of what you can do for them.

As a service professional, what you excel at is serving, not selling. Doing what you do best allows you to shine. You'll be more comfortable, your prospects will trust and respect you, and you will naturally be in contact with them more often. As a result, more prospects will become clients without either of you having to suffer through a sales presentation.

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	C.J. Hayden is the author of Get Clients Now!: A 28-day Marketing Program for Professionals, Consultants, And Coaches Thousands of business owners and salespeople have used her simple sales and marketing system to double or triple their income. Get a free copy of "Five Secrets to Finding All the Clients You'll Ever Need" at www.getclientsnow.com. Read More >>
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