Courage is Not the Absence of Fear!
Real Courage is Doing What You Are Afraid to Do!
In the 15 years we've been
training salespeople in High Probability Selling, we've known that what
we teach scares people. What we haven't known is *why* our methods
scare some salespeople into clinging to their old - but ineffective -
sales approaches. Why can't so many salespeople change the way they
sell?
After years of research, we've
finally determined why so many salespeople can't change the way they
sell: They're afraid of doing what really works!
Typically, salespeople mask
their fears with macho attitudes. They think of themselves as heroic
figures, persevering against all obstacles, fighting the good fight day
after day. But, think about this: Who are they really fighting?
Through extensive research under
the guidance of Dr. Wayne Diamond, we've concluded that salespeople's
own fears are the biggest impediment to their success. Fear is the real
'enemy'.
This is where true courage
enters the picture: We have to recognize and confront our fears before
we can overcome them. Here is a 3-Step Strategy for overcoming your
fears. (Note: "Uncomfortable, uneasy, and anxious" are other words for
fear.)
1. Reality or Fantasy?
The first thing you need to do
is determine whether the fears you have are based in Reality or
Fantasy. You can't beat what isn't real. You can't overcome what is
real if you won't admit exists. If a fear is based in reality, facing
it helps to overcome the fear. If a fear is based in fantasy,
acknowledging the fantasy helps to overcome it.
What you resist persists. If you resist facing your fears, they will persist.
2. Acknowledge Your Fears
| Typical Sales Fears |
Reality |
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| The Fear of Rejection |
The way you sell causes rejection |
| The Fear of Loss |
You can't lose what you don't have |
| The Fear of Scarcity |
Learn to find an abundance of prospects |
| The Fear of Being Intrusive |
People who mind intrusion don't take calls |
| The Fear of Being Offensive |
The timid way you sell offends prospects |
| The Fear of Not Being Believed |
Practice full disclosure and be believed |
| The Fear of Being Disrespected |
Directness and Authenticity get respect |
| The Fear of Failure and/or the Fear of Success |
Needs professional guidance |
3. Assumptions Are Sales Killers
Assuming
that you know how people will react often produces negative results. It
doesn't matter if your assumptions are generally negative or positive.
Both are condescending and/or insulting. Both are based on some or all
of the fears listed above.
Assumptions
are usually based on what you believe to be True, or what you wish were
true. Our false assumptions may be due to past unsuccessful sales
experiences, or they may be relics of personal experiences, recent or
long 'buried'.
"Understanding one's fears is simple. Facing the avoidance patterns that comes from fear is quite complex."- Dr. Wayne Diamond. For further information on how to apply these principles call Dr. Diamond at 215-242-9054.
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